How do I deal with my pregnant wife?

She doesn't believe me when I tell her how beautiful she is or how much I love her. I think its awesome that she's pregnant, and I can't wait to be a father and have our family grow. She's 23 weeks and is convinced that I hate her body when I've never thought that. How can I convince her that I'm not disgusted with her and that I just want to help her any way I can? Is this going to continue even after she has our baby?How do I deal with my pregnant wife?
haha my gf was a nut when she was pregnant ;)


dont worry mate things will sort out...'hormones' ;)


rather u than me :D just wait till u see ur baby...it'll all be worth itHow do I deal with my pregnant wife?
Just remember she is very hormonal right now. It's very hard on a women, the hormones are raging, your body is changing and you're even a little scared about giving birth and if everything will be OK with the baby. I never believed my husband when he told me that I was beautiful. Why don't you surprise her with a date? That helped me ALOT! My hubby told me to dress nice and took me to dinner and a movie. You could pack her bags and surprise her with a night at a lodge or hotel, sometimes it's just nice to get away from the same old, same old. It shouldn't continue too long afterwards, but you have to give her time for her hormones to settle back down and for her to get her figure back. Just keep telling her how pretty she is and do nice things for her, like taking her out, getting her a nice card or flowers, ect. Hang in there, I'm living proof it doesn't last:)
I am 32 weeks with twins and I feel like a huge mess! I haven't gained any weight, but the belly has surely puffed out there! I feel very insecure about myself and what my husband thinks about me, but he tells me everyday how much he loves me, how beautiful he thinks I am and does everything possible to make sure I am satisfied with knowing that he loves me even though I am as big as a mall! LOL He also makes a point to rub my belly as much as he can and talks to the babies several times a day. It is all hormones, it will get better after she has the baby. Just try to hang in there and try to reassure her everyday that you love her just the way she is. Also another hint, if there is a attractive thin female around, DO NOT LOOK AT HER! lol I caught my husband doing that one day and flipped out. Damn the hormones! Good luck and hang in there!
It's got nothing to do with you. She knows deep down that you love her and think she is beautiful, but her hormones are telling her otherwise. Her body is changing and especially for a first pregnancy it is hard to deal with the extra weight and changes. Some women feel very unattractive when they are pregnant. It will get better soon, I promise, there is not much you can do but encourage the fact that you love her. Good Luck, and congrats:)
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!


My advice to you is try and go above and beyond to make her realy feel beautiful .buy her a dress or something. YOu can also try and get her in the mood 4 sex cause then she might realy feel that you realy love her(it might not be needed cause she will get over this in a few weeks when she moves unto a diff. trimester. Go all out give her a massage play a romantic song.............take her out 4 dinner and tell her how much you love her over and over again ,............


GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because many of us feel like a blimp and gross and we don't really believe you because we see ourselves and think YUCK! (Okay there are the FEW who love how they look when pregnant but I have never met anyone like this so they must be few and far between).





It may not end with the pregnancy either if she gets lots of stretch marks and all that and doesn't lose the weight very fast she will feel insecure even after the baby comes. Sorry but you may be dealing with it for awhile.
Yes,the hormones %26amp; body changes defiantly run a toll on a woman's self esteem...Buy her greeting cards saying how you think she is the most beautiful women in the world, send her nice emails, tell her over %26amp; over how much you love her, kiss her belly often, hold her hand in public, help her take a relaxing bath and tell her how gorgeous she looks in it. Things like that, along with patience and understanding will really help!
yea i got the same problem. we cant ctrl it. i try with my hubby but it just gets outta hand and this is my second child too.i dont mean to get all mad and upset over something so small, but this is only temporary til the baby is born and maybe a few more week of the hormones going back down. just be there for her. you will have your sweet wife back i promise. i wish i had a hubby like yourself.. so just be the man that you are when you married her. its not that bad!
Im just a little farther along than her and i feel the same way. Honestly, I know that my husband loves me and that he still is attracted to me. But when I look at myself I don't see beauty. Just keep showing her that you love her and that you are attracted to her. You cant really change how she feels because its a very personal thing.
Take fault in everything and feed her. :D Just kidding, but seriously, my boyfriend said to me the other day that he loves my belly. Huh? He said it was perfectly round. I think he is a dork. It's just hormones it will pass I promise!
I'd make time to touch her belly as much as possible. If you are watching TV next to her or something I'd talk to the baby or rub her belly or kiss it... ect.. Eventually she should get over it and realize it isn't bothering to you.
Every guy goes through this.





I tell my wife at least 3 times a day. When i wake up, when I get home from work, and before I go to bed. And a few times between there too.





Its the hormones talking remember that. just keep telling her it.
Lol, just keep reminding her, it's the hormones I feel the same way sometimes!!! No, it'll probably go away once she has the baby, unless she has postpartum depression. Good luck.
it's hormones and you don't feel pretty when your pregnant you feel like a fat cow or something
plan something romantic for the two of you and buy her something sexy to show her that you are still attracted to her.
u cant shes pegnant its the hormones