oh my god. i fukcing hate women like that, be glad that she's smart! does she have something valid to say each time she talks or does she talk alot without saying anything? if she is so smart she would be able to understand you if you tell her her constant talking makes you uncomfortable and need some silence in your life so you can relax.How do you deal with a wife that talks all the time!!!?
Earplugs - Just kidding (sort of).
I would learn to do selective hearing and tune her our some of the time.
She will most likely talk less as she gets a little older.
I have a man like that and I'm very up front about things, so I say things like ';really u think I want to no that'; or ';o yea u told me'; they don't remember when they tell so many stories. I think for her u might just tell her in a nice way so u don't hurt her feelings but so other people don't get bugged by it. I have a look now I give mine, just so he knows he's doing it, I think she might not know what she's doing, he didn't till I video him and let him see it. I think he's doing much better now and even sees himself doing it and will stop.
I actually find I do that sometimes..LOL%26gt;... but we agree on ';me time '; he goes play his games or whatever .. while I do my thing.... we can have small talk at the table... or in bed..lol.... You picked her..lol.... have you tried talking to her about it?
You're doomed. There is no known cure.
Duck tape her mouth shut!
The best answer from the wife who also talks way too much... :) My dh listens with only half an ear to nearly everything I say. I often am thinking so much that I just blurt out whatever is on my mind and he does not even know what the topic is! If I really want or need him to hear what I am saying, I make it a point to get his attention. Otherwise, I am just glad to have someone in the same room so I am not just talking to myself. (Yes I will do that if I am left alone too long... Please, don't go away! LMAO!) She may just be looking for attention, which if you give her at times when she is not talking, she will not feel that she has to talk to gain your attention. Or maybe she is just like myself, and not overly worried if you are not listening all the time... BUT you would have to talk about it first, just to be sure that's where she is coming from.
Good luck from Mrs. Gabsalot! :)
Put something in her mouth..
So your wife is, as you said, very smart and I guess this is a reason you married her. Sure the chatting channel with missing switch off button can be annoying.
Since I don't know her, does she work? Does she socialize a lot? Does she have any hobbies dealing with people? I am asking because since she seems to have a lot to share, sometimes a job or hobby where she might be able to use her skill to get the job done can make her feel tired to talk too much in the evening.
I work in hospitality and if you get to meet me on my day off, the last thing I am is talk active.
Hope it helps and well, if not steal the blanket at night ;)
That is hard because if you ask her to be quiet it could hurt her feelings, but if she keeps talking it will drive you crazy. So sometime when she is not blabbering on, and everything is going fine, tell her you want to talk, and explain that sometimes you don't feel like listening for the long version, ask her what you two can come up with to help you out. The main point is nobody should be wrong here, just trying to work out something that is on your mind. You deserve to bring it up because it is bothering you. Just remember it will be a sore spot or a possible issue the rest of the relationship so do tread lightly. You can always say more later, but you can never take anything back-that does not work.
ignore her azz, like I ignore my wife when she acts like that.
LOL...turn to her one day as she is in the middle of this behavior and direct calm voice as nicely as you can say will you please shut the hell up! It may hurt her feelings a little then she will ask why did you say that or something of that sort and then you can explain to her how annoying she is acting when she does that....
Good Luck
Tell her instead of talking with that mouth, there is something way more important she can be doing with it. Then wink at her...
OMG - someone actually suggested to divorce over this? lmfao... wow.
Put the computer in a different room. Then introduce her to Y!A. The silence will be deafening.
My husband talks all the time. I have learned to tune him out over time or make him back round noise. It may seem mean but I listen to his heart to heart chats and his problems. Just hang in there.
talk to her about it if she dose not get it divorce her ***.
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