How is that supposed to be dealt with here in the West?Atheists, how is a guy supposed to deal with a wife/girlfriend that doesnt listen?
Shes not a child,she can do what she pleases.Atheists, how is a guy supposed to deal with a wife/girlfriend that doesnt listen?
i would say they speak out their issues with one another and if this does not happen they find ways to make peace; some, like most of society will keep sex from the other as a way to get back at them for the hurt that has been endured and they will give their life for their love ones too just like Christians. I know this because I work (therapy) with them and also with Christian couples with the same ideas.
They are normal people LofJ, just because they do not believe in God does not make them uncivilized people; they also love one another and are like most, make mistakes in their behaviors and reactions.
She is listening and she is not doing as you say.
Either you change, or you leave her.
Suppose you ask her to be a prostitute, or to kidnap for you - and she doesn't do it. That doesn't mean she's not listening, she's just not doing what you ask.
You can either get used to her not being a prostitute, or you can find another girl friend.
Try not telling her what to do for a change.
What are you, her father?
You're not supposed to ';do'; anything.
If you're her father, and she is under 18, then tell her to go to her room.
If your her boss, then tell her if she cannot follow your instructions, then you will fire her.
If she is your wife/GF, then try treating her with respect. Something you clearly have no understanding of.
(In a whiny little b*tch voice:)
';What am I supposed to do?';
Puhleeeze!
You're lucky you're not MY BF. I'd b*tch slap you for telling ME what to do!
Same way a woman deals with it when her husband doesn't listen to her. You cope. (Maybe it wasn't something you should have been telling her about, anyway? Maybe she really did know better? Did that ever occur to you?)
Instead of demanding things.. you talk through them and explain your stance, focusing on the importance of the issue to you. She explains her stance, maybe she's not at fault.
If she continues or you can't deal, You break it off.
You do not own her. If she wants to do something, hell, she can do it. You can't deny her free-will or she'll divorce/break up with you. Again, you don't own her.
That's why it's important to date and find a woman you respect and who respects you in turn before committing to marriage.
You could always break up with her, and find someone a little more submissive who doesn't mind being told what to do/what not to do.
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Lol, the price of independence...
Do you do everything 'she' says?
Perhaps if you weren't so controlling she would listen to you more.
Say it. Say you have a problem with her doing it.
You are not suggesting you should have command over her, are you?
Repeat after me: ';Yes, dear';.
Relationships are an equal partnership, not a master slave relationship.
If you can't figure that out, stay single.
Haha. Troll. Buy yourself a wife from the East and enjoy until she leaves with the money she came for.
You don't tell her. You request, you reason, you convince, you negotiate, as if she were *gasp* *horrors* your PEER.
Girlfriends are like city buses. One cruises by every ten minutes. Some stop where you're standing.
First thing you need to do is get a girlfriend.
I find that talking with my mate helps me out, instead of being a demanding ****
She's not your slave, deal with that
why only atheists? you deal with her.
The Atheati has really gone to sh*t these days...
What's this got to do with being an atheist?
Divorce. It's in her best interest.
tell her to do it
uhhh well then maybe you should stop telling her what to do
what does that have to do with atheism...?
maybe she just doesn't want to do whatever it is you are telling her to do?
We don't order our wives around like children here.
Violation Notice stole my words: Tell her to do it. She will stop.
As the great Sean Connery said:
';When you've tried everything else, its ok to hit a woman';
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