How do I deal with a wife who can't stop bringing up my past?

This ragged witch is ALWAYS bringing up things I did the night before, or the week before or even last month. I mean, dang woman, quit living in the past already. I can't change the fact that I occasionally have cheated on her, but what good does it do to keep nagging me about it the next day?How do I deal with a wife who can't stop bringing up my past?
Dang women anyways..............Duck tape...........Why not it works for everything else?How do I deal with a wife who can't stop bringing up my past?
You're obviously not meeting her needs even now.


Hmmmm...I suggest you get ';Power of a Praying Husband'; by Stormie Omartian. Let me tell you...Prayer is very powerful. Both my hubby and I are living testimonies. Just have Faith!





I pray all goes well for you both.





John 3:16





16';For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,[a] that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
she needs therapy.
she is insecure with your relationship, maybe talking to her about it might help things tell her if this don't stop it's going to push you away eventially. the past is the past. but then again she is scared that you might hurt her again.talk to your wife make things better for the both of you .


Or maybe try some marriage cancelling this will surely help.
i think your blaming her for everything when acturally if u didnt cheat on her in the first place she wouldnt have nothing to nag about, i mean god whats the poor woman supposed to do when every time she looks at you she thinks of what uve dun , i think the best thing is to end the relationship,x
Some girls have a bad habit of doing that!
Interesting....before I read your additional information I thought to myself that one big reason people keep brining up old fights/issues is because they don't feel it was resolved. Now, after reading your additional info, I have an even better feeling that my answer is correct.





In order to resolve the issue correctly, both partners need to feel empathized with and understood..ESPECIALLY in a cheating situation....and if you have the attitutude with your wife that you had while typing out this question, then it seems that you have not shown either.





In fact, your attitutude is what's making it very likely you'll cheat again and the cycle will keep churning away.
Stop being an a$$hole and she'll stop being a witch.
well just tell her you don't like nobody talk about the past.
Get another wife that doesn't know your past.
what about stop cheating
She needs to stop bringing up your past, drop you, and move on with her future.
Obviously it does know good. I think that instead nagging you the next day she should be leaving. You suck and probably are not even worth her nagging. Get a life!
You suck. One day she will get sick of nagging you and just cut off your penis and shove it in you ***, and then shove it in your mouth, and kill your ***. HAHAHAHAHA. You have been warned. She wont be able to change the fact that she killed yo the night before or week before or whatever.
You know what....the past is what makes up the future...No you can't change the fact that you cheated on her...and you shouldn't have done it in the first place...And really you deserve to hear about it every single day for the rest of your life for the pain and betrayal you have caused for your wife....Man, you just DON';T F*%$ING get it do you!!! Do you REALLY expect her to just forget that the man whom she LOVES was out with another woman!!!! She should LEAVE YOUR ***....No other word for it....The reason why she nags you is because she is STILL HURTING...BUT DO YOU CARE???? HUH??? NO!!! You just care that she is ';nagging';...well for all the nagging she does....STILL DOES NOT AMOUNT IN ANY ******* WAY TO THE PAIN AND HURT YOU CAUSED THE WOMAN YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO LOVE.....What good does it do???? Who CARES!!! Maybe it makes her FEEL just a LITTLE BIT BETTER....you don't deserve to have a loving wife...YOU MAKE ME SICK
women are nags. they're good for one thing and one thing only and they EFF that up once a month!
you're a cheater, you get nothing. You're a bad person
How long have you and your wife been together? Maybe you need to sit her down and set her straight. Maybe you need to spend more time with her. But you need to seriously talk to her. If you haven't been married long, you may want to consider leaving. Why stay in a relationship that you aren't happy with, even if you have kids.
Well, sounds like you're the one with the problem; you sure aren't part of the solution. You should do your wife a solid and divorce her for her own good.
Yeah. She doesn't deserve a man like you. You should leave.
tell her that when we go 2 sleep it is a new day and get over it tell her she is pushing you 2 do dum things!!!!!!!
Occasionally cheated? Define occasionally?Buddy, there is an old saying, '; If you can't stand the heat, get out of the fire '; How would you treat her, if she had occasionally cheated on you?
Maybe she is cheating on you and this is her way of feeling guilty by ragging on you.
';This ragged witch';, hmmmm says a lot about you. Maybe you have done things in the past and just maybe you are one of those guys who keeps doing those things. Maybe the past just never ends with you????? Sounds to me like you need to get your sh!t together and be a man instead of acting like a little boy.
DIVORCE...you should not get married..you have a problem with cheating...you are a BADD person
Perhaps your 'ragged witch' keeps bringing up the past because you keep screwing up the present. If you want to occasionally cheat, then get single. If you don't want to have to take account for what you do, get single. Good luck.
Tell her to shut up and tell her to wake up and think and talk about the future. Like ';Do you want to go on a date'; or ';Do you want to buy a house'; etc.


Or just don't listen to her.
';Occasionally?'; You accept the nagging and keep your nose clean. When youhave a good track record of honesty, it will fall away
The true answer is ... how should your wife deal with you. First of all, if you are calling her a ragged witch, I would say that it is time for you to realize that your marriage is over. She needs to stop mentioning your past and get on with her life. She needs to get rid of you. For you to ';occasionally'; cheat on her....who can blame her for nagging you about it. Get a Life!!! What good does it do for her to stay with you when you cheat and think it's okay?
what good is it to keep on cheating on her occasionally??? dang!!!
Discovering the betrayal and anticipating the potential loss of the person most important in her life causes great distress. Unlike the trauma of death, which has an end and can be compensated for by positive elements in the relationship, infidelity undermines all that is good in the relationship and the pain seems to have no natural end point. Although not welcomed, death is to be expected at some point in a marriage. Betrayal is not. The victim of betrayal questions if the spouse ever loved them, and if so, what they might have done to lose it. It is as if the adulterous spouse has thrown dirt in the river of their marriage contaminating the water behind them and before them.


To recover from trauma, a victim has a natural tendency to go back to the traumatic experience, questioning, going over details repetitiously: “What did you do? Where? When? How often?” The traumatized spouse must go over the events until the emotional distress caused by them becomes manageable. They must reach a point where they feel there are no more surprises.


Often, the betraying spouse wants to get things over quickly, after admitting to their infidelity. They must develop empathy for what the betrayed spouse is experiencing, and be willing to live with the pain of guilt, until genuine healing can occur. In addition, the betraying spouse may learn something about them self in the questioning process. They may begin to see their own motives, vulnerabilities, and selfishness. If both spouses can tolerate and control the emotions involved, they may come to a joint understanding of how the infidelity occurred, signaling the beginning of a more substantial level of recovery. Recovery usually takes 1 to 3 years.