How do you deal with your wife telling you that you are not the most endowed that she's been with?

Last night I was talking with my wife and she has a girlfriend who is always meeting up with new guys. Well her friend supposedly offers up a lot of information about the guys that she is with including stats. Well I made a joke with my wife about myself because up until last night I have always been very confident in that department. Well she thought that I was serious and immediately says ';well you aren't the biggest that I've been with'; and then gestured with her hands a relatively large size and continued on with ';but he was very skinny and I'm a lot happier that you are thick'; I then said ';what's that supposed to mean, are you saying I'm small?'; She then got even more awkward and obviously was trying to find a nice way in her head to say yes, so instead she feeds me this ';well you are very good at what you do and size doesn't matter and that I at least hang in there and make sure she's always happy and yadda yadda'; Which is all just a long drawn out nice way of saying that you aren't big but you at least pleasure me. Which is the important part but, my wife has been the best in every way. Obviously we are both adults we have both been with other people so I'm not saying anything about that it's just it's hard to think that someone else pleased my spouse better than I can and she has always been the best for me. I was looking up some different male enhancement things and everything I can see there is just a bunch of BS. The only things you really can do are improve your abilities. How do I deal with this feeling I'm having. i literally feel like I'm a foot tall. I have no drive right now to work and am currently sitting in my office just staring at the ground not wanting to even look at other people. My entire body feels ';weak'; so to speak and I feel like I jsut don't care anymore.How do you deal with your wife telling you that you are not the most endowed that she's been with?
Your wife, unfortunately, broke a cardinal rule . . . comparing male anatomy with her mate is never wise - she put herself in an impossible position and everything she says only makes it worse.





It is really for YOU to deal with. A man's worth is not measured in inches and girth of the male penis but in the honor, integrity, love, tenderness, attention and love that he brings to his mate. Caring for her and respecting her needs . . . security, emotionally, sexually, pschologically - THAT is the measure of a man. You will OWN her love, sexuallity and respect if you man up in these areas where you can exercise control.





But, I will tell you . . . nothing turns a woman off faster than a man who is not confident in his masculinity and sexuality. It really is NOT a size of the organ as much as the size of the man.How do you deal with your wife telling you that you are not the most endowed that she's been with?
You please her.You please her.


You please her.You please her.


You please her.


That is more important than size.


Why are you torturing yourself.


Tell her she feels like the Grand Canyon,


then you will be equal.
Do you satisfy your wife? If not, then you need to find ways to satisfy her and her you. Size is not important... what you do with the size is what counts. My husband has prostate cancer... nothing works... and we are happy as a lark anyway.
She didn't mean it. She said a stupid thing and then couldn't fix it when she realized how it sounded.








If she wasn't happy, she wouldn't have made this (immature and ill-advised) joke.








Try to forget about it.
size does not matter. she loves you do not worry about it. she married you. you are obviously doing something right in bed. cheer up and show her the night of her life. thickness is nice :)
dude....youre acting like a chick right now. Seriously.





Shes banging you, she married you, not the ex boyfriend so shut up.
Consider her lucky, I'm very nicely hung and hardly ever please my wife.
You need counseling for low self esteem and severe insecurity.





She needs a swift kick in the azz for being stupid. making your spouse feel inadequate is not smart and serves no purpose.
Never had that problem.
I wouldn't ever have to deal with that.
Maybe you aren't man enough to please her. Ever thought of that?
Silly her saying it and silly you taking it like that! grow up man
Oh, my.





Let's start at the beginning. You asked, she answered.


You SHOULD feel good that she feels safe enough with you and in your relationship to tell you honestly. But, you don't. And you should tell her that. But, let's see if we can help you in the mean time.


Be logical, if she was logical for the initial blow, why wouldn't she be honest for the last part? Let's look at what she said and break it down. She is with you... not the other guy. You do satisfy her. sexually. To her, size is not nearly as important as technique. You have a bigger ';girth'; than the other guy. All of this is great news!


And you obviously love your wife and want the best for her. Bottom line, if it's not a problem for you, don't make it a problem for you.





IF you want some new bedroom tricks there is a wonderful book, ';Ride 'Em Cowgirl'; by Allison Sadie. *WARNING: Not for the faint of heart.
are you pmsing that sounds like a women thing being all emotional and reacting off of pure emotion for the most part.


Don't you think your reading a bit too much into this?


i will say she didn't have to say that.
hey dude,





grow a pair. you sound too emotional and sound almost like a girl. stop this. You STOP this now and go BANG your wife and show her who is the BOSS.


or you can go to the nearest Porsche dealership and order yourself a new ride to proof your manhood.
If you wanted a wife who thinks you are the best there is bar none, you should have married a virgin. You have blown this whole thing way out of proportion. Bigger is not always better, and it sounds like she has already told you this. You think that just because someone has an inch on you, he was a better lover. That is nonsense. The best lover I ever had was not the biggest - nor the smallest.





My mother always told me how fragile men's egos were. This is the first time I have ever witnessed it to this degree. I think you need to get over it.
Nothing you can do about it. Can't change what you were born with, but you can have some perspective.





If midgets and amputees can still figure out how to have enough self-confidence to score girlfriends %26amp; wives, then you shouldn't be complaining. ';Suck it up'; really is the only correct, practical answer.
Dude,





Relax man. Your old lady probably had sex with an NBA player or some porn star, you are probably the “biggest” normal guy that she’s been with. Hehehehe.. The important things is that you and your wife love each and have a healthy sex life.





Pauly
First of all, size DOES matter. When a female tells you that it does not, she is trying to spare your feelings.


I don't care how skilled a man is, if he's gotta pencil d1ck, it wont get the job done.





That being said, if you are pleasing your wife, that's what should matter.


if you're average, that's fine. As long as you aren't three or four inches, you're ok.





also keep in mind that great sex is a combination of things such as physical and emotional fullfilment.
Understand this......There is ALWAYS someone bigger, better, more handsome, makes more money, funnier, stronger, and on and on and on. Despite all that, she chose you!!! If you are in a happy relationship with a woman who loves you and you also love, who cares!! Like you said everyone has a past. Have you been with a woman with a smaller a$$? It might set off her insecurities to hear that from you. In the end, you won, you got the girl. You were confident before she said something because of the wonderful relationship and experiences you have with her. You now feel small because of what is in your head not what is in her head or heart or for that matter the sensations in her nether regions that you are satisfying. Deal with it and give your wife the best you got and be happy.
you didn't honestly believe there were no men out there bigger than you did you? it is apparent your wife thinks your the better lover because you know what you are doing...the guy who had more length was a pencil dick... you give her something to hold on too...i would take width and an average cock to pencil dick and longer cock any day...