Friday, August 20, 2010

How do i deal with my wife pregnancy?

one min she is nice and the other min she hates me. I like to hug and kiss. She dose not want to be near me. It is hurting our marriage. I think i am going to lose her. What to do?How do i deal with my wife pregnancy?
It is hormonal. She is not doing it to hurt you she may not even realize it. She feels fat ugly. He breasts hurt, she has to pee all the time. She feels tired all the time. Try doing dishes cleaning up, make dinner. Draw a nice bubble bath for her with candles and soft music, give her foot rubs, get her cards that tell her how much you love her and how beautiful she is. You will make it through this.





Good luck LindaHow do i deal with my wife pregnancy?
Go this weekend to the bookstore and look through the pregnancy section. There are books specifically written for the dads-to-be in mind. Women go through alot of homornal changes during pregnancy, which explains some of the mood swings. But there may be other issues going on. She could be nervous about the pregnancy. She could feel like you're not 100% on board. You just need to talk to her.....BUT ONLY AFTER you read the book or books. Those will tell you what's kind of normal and what's not. I wouldn't let her treat me like crap just because she's pregnant. This is supposed to be a fun, loving time.
Good thing is its over in 9 months unless she has problems with hormones after the birth then maybe another year. Shes hormonal dont take it personal...its not like she wants to be that way. Not everything is about you so try to remember that she is pregnant and has no control over what she is doing. Stop being a puzzy.
she is just hormonal right now that's all just put her on a pedestal and be super nice to her also do not do anything to loose her and do not look at other women right now she needs to feel she is the most important thing to you and does not any extra stress! you will get threw this good luck with the new baby!
Grin and bear it! When women are pregnant they are going through massive hormone and who knows what other transitions in their bodies. They are, to put it bluntly, not really responsible for their mood swings and outbursts. The old saying of a pregnant craving pickles and ice cream is not too far from the truth.





Just be patient and go along with her mood swings.
Well do you remember what you did to get her that way??





You had your nite of fun and now she's having 9 months of ';fun'; and making you as miserable as she is FEELING.





She loves you reguardless...it's hormones!





Deal with it....that's what a REAL HUBBY would do and know it won't last forever!!
Really? Just because shes has mood swings you think shes gonna leave?? Dude, shes PREGNANT. Get used to it! Shes going to have ups and downs a million times a day! Yes it hurt and yes its annoying but its the hormones talking! Come on now.... Just get over it because its not going to stop, she cant control it and its not anyones fault. Just try to make her happy (within reason) and if she gets mad dont take it personally. Havent you ever been around a pregnant woman?
It will only hurt your marriage if you let it


pregnancy is hard because of the hormones and everything else she is going through it doesnt mean she hates you


you need to try to understand her in this state and support her


why would you think you are going to lose her?
hormones play abig part in pregnancy. i had three kids and each time i was different. you just have to bear with her and let her know you still love her and will be there for her through all this, she doesnt realize what is really going on with her. good luck. hang in there it will over soon.
It has nothing to do with you. I was discusted with being touched when I was pregnant the first time. I am pregnant for a second time %26amp; it doesn't bother me at all. You have to learn to deal with it, both of you.
Just be patient. Her hormones are all over the place right now. This is something you can't understand. I'm sure she still loves you. In fact, I doubt even she realizes what is happening to her.
it is hormones. try to be patient. whatever she says/does right now, she does not want to lose the father of her baby. she is scared and hormonally off. good luck. patience, m'friend.
You may think you have it rough, but shes dealing with it harder than you...support her, shes carrying your child...dont let it affect your marriage, shes not in control of her emotions right now...just laugh it off
This is hormonal and normal. Give her space when she needs it, offer to rub her feet and back.
is it really that bad to where u think u might loose your marriage? try and communicate to her that you are trying to help
rub her tummy and tell her she's the most beautiful woman you've ever seen.
Don't bug her. Just be nice

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