How to deal with your wife's bitching? Please help!!!?

just say ';yes, dear';...How to deal with your wife's bitching? Please help!!!?
What is she bitching about?





Money? - Tell her your situation with your money





House? - Nagging you about the house, maybe you should sit down and talk about it





Kids? - Tell her your side of the story in the situation when shes nagging





Cleaning Etc...? - Remind her that you're a guy... but either way, try and help out around the house and maybe she won't be so negative towards you.How to deal with your wife's bitching? Please help!!!?
I sympathize with you with your wife is a ******, but there are legitimate reasons for nagging or bitching. For all you know, you are really the problem. So, try to listen to her completely and try to sort out the bitching. Maybe, it's only a very minor thing that has blown to high heavens because of your inadequate reaction or action. Surely, you love your love and that's why you married her, so listen and try to understand her. If all else fail, then punch .... the table and seek help from a guidance counsellor.





Good luck to you.
ok i just have to say being a wife that does ***** sometimes i am just in a bad mood but mostly its because i need something from my husband that he is not giving me. Don't get me wrong i know this probably isnt the best way to get through to him but sometimes he leaves me no choice. I ***** when i constantly have to ask him something over and over. I ***** when he does something he knows i hate. i ***** when i have asked nicely and it didnt do the trick....what i'm trying to say is maybe you should talk to your wife and see why she is bitching. let her know that there is a more effective way to get through to you. but you have to try tooo
switch on yourself when she starts talking.


usually guyz tend to switch off their brains when girls start to complaining or nagging. they wont nag or complain unless there is a reason.


so to eliminate n improve the situation, listen to her when she complains even if you think she is not right or watsoever, try to stay on her side, and talk to her instead of treating her as an invisible person. if you totally ignore her,then you shld expect more nagging n more complaining. blv me.. and of course if you really love her.. if you dun ask her to shut up and leave you alone. and then u can get rid off her foreva.
MOST women will not nag unless they have a reason to. As mentioned above, try listening to what your wife is saying. If you still dont understand tell her that you are tired of being talked to that way and ask her what would make her stop. Usually there is an underlying reason, such as not getting enough attention and quality time, or maybe you are making messes, etc. I can almost guarantee its got to do with her needing help with chores or needing more attention from you. Maybe she is the type that needs to get that in return to understand how much she's bothering you. Try talking first, if that doesn't work, give it back to her :)
Well there is always duct tape, but failing that, why don't you just sit her down and tell her she is driving you away from her with all the bitching and fussing and all the other stuff and see if either of you can work stuff out and stop all the discord between the two of you.
Do what she tells you and there will be no more bitching. Pick up your laundry, put your dishes in the dish washer, help put the kids to bed, pick up after yourself and if you have already done these things then buy ear plugs.
Listen to what she's bitching about, and try to make an effort to appease her.





Also, calling it 'bitching' seems a bit callous. How about 'nagging' or 'complaining'.
when she gets really mad, give her some space.


dont ever yell back even if you cant help it.


Just step outside and sit there untill she cools down.


Thats what my father does, when my mom has a bad day . that way, they never actually argue =) !
Pick her up an THROW her to the bed and Have HOT FIREING SEX with her :P


when im bitching to my Hubby thats waht he does and ii sh-up and then ii start yelling agine then he lissings :P
Maybe you should start listening to her, and if she is bitching about things you are/are not doing then start fixing them so she won't ***** as much.
Well what exactly is going on? Why is she bitching exactly?
great question Im not married but my girlfriend loves bitching. I just quit talking and listen whether i agree or not. I am hot tempered so it is very hard to me but it isnt worth fighting over
Rule number one the wife is always right!


Rule number two if the wife is wrong then refer back to rule number one.
I have always told my wife that she can ***** and complain all she wants I can ignore her as easy as anyone else
Never been married but be happy that you have a wife who is there for you. I'm sure she probably puts of with some of your bad habits as well.
same way I deal with my husband's whining, chill and have a drink along with anti-depressants
keep the toilet seat down


pick up after yourself


let her *** first





do those and you will be alright!
Start listening so she doesn't have to repeat herself.
Maybe SHE isn't the whole problem. Take a closer look at what YOU are (or aren't) doing.
well if shes bitching so much maybe theres something YOUR not doing.
talk to her...nicely! and listening to what she is actually saying. if its about you maybe you could try fixing the problem.
maybe if you listened to her once in a while she would stop bitching:P
hahahaha! Try to find out why shes bitching, ACT LIKE YOU CARE!
Talk less and listen more.
don't give her a reason to ********* about! stop watching TV, playing video games or chatting online all day and clean up after your mess!
ear plugs?


ear muffs?


turn up the t.v.?
do what she says and she wont *****!! :o)
How about a divorce? No one should have to put up with bitching or abuse. From a woman or a man. You need to let her know that it upsets you and ask her to stop or you will have to leave.
***** about her or fight fire wtih fire lay down the law! firmly unless your in the wrong but if its typical house wifey bitching id just laugh at her tell her to grow up