How should I deal with my wife's new rule?

About six month's ago, my wife made it clear that she no longer had any interest in sexual intercourse with me. She also made it clear however, that she does have an interest in having interourse with other people.


When these people come round, say once or twice a week, I am obliged to either go out, or stay in the basement where I'm allowed to watch tv quietly.


I provide for my family and make sure they have a stable home, and I can't help feeling that my wife is abusing that.How should I deal with my wife's new rule?
Geesh, how self centered you are. You should ask her if you can wash the bedsheets after she is done havng sex with her studs.How should I deal with my wife's new rule?
I beleive you...thousands wouldn't!!!!!
Ya THINK?? Abusing that is putting it mildly. Get a divorce laywer, quick.
Yeah she is abusing that. Thats crazy, and I do not know how you can take that. Kick her to the curb!!!!
make sure u don`t forget to ask them all if they want refreshments after! well all that sex is thirsty work! hope that helped :)
Hmm, funny, the same question was in the Sun advice column about 2 weeks ago...
Holy Crap! Your wife is a ******! Tell her straight up you love her and want her, and if she is no longer interested in you Ask her why?
Get rid of her butt you have proof of adultry so she is done for when you go to court and if you really wanted proof of her adultry bust in on her with a camers and take pics. They will speak a 1000 words for you
Are you kidding me? You need to buckle up and boot that woman out. She is neglecting you in more ways than one. Boy, you need to grow a back bone.You don't let your wife have sex with someone else in your home, and let it be ok. That is your home too. I'm stunned that a man would have to come on here and ask something like that. She is cheating on you. Let me ask you a question. What does you gut (not your heart) tell you. Always follow your gut feelings. If it is telling you that this is a bad arrangement, then by golly george, do something about it.
What ever the situation your wife will win. The maintenance will be extortionate if she has other partners! And the courts don't take anything into account that suggest the woman is in the wrong. They will probably stop you seeing the children if they think you are not a good Father and always recommend that they stay with the Mother. It's called 'In the best interest of the children'


Good luck.
The real question.... Are you Nuts?


The real Answer...Nobody in their right mind would sit and allow this situation to continue... so you must be insane, or sadist.
KICK HER *** OUTA UR HOME PAL


Thats what she is worth for
Dude she is walking all over you and your right, she IS abusing you. Your basically allowing her to cheat on you. By her saying that she has interest to have sex with other people but not you, something isn't right there. You NEED to put a stop to that RIGHT NOW!!!! Be a man and stand up to your wife. She needs counceling BIG TIME!!!! She's got some serious issues that need to be worked out. But she's basically cheating on you and your letting it happen. Stand up for yourself, and tell her no, this isn't right.





Plus you both need marriage counceling. I hate to say it but the way it looks, you both may be ending up in a divorce. I know you provide for your family but what she's doing isn't making a stable home. It's anything BUT stable. She's trying to justify her cheating by saying she's interested in other people but not you.
She needs a good kick in the fanny and the quicker you give it to her the better, come on be a man for ***** sake and stop asking us questions, go sort your Mrs out....she's well out of line.....
if you had both agreed on the situtation there would be nothing wrong with it, you are all adults who are entitled to do what you want in your private life.





However, as you have obviously not agreed to this and it is your wife's rule then it is very wrong





a marriage should be based on trust and respect





you say you provide for your family.................my bet is that you provide for them very well and that is all she is using you for





dont be a doormat, she should be showing you more respect, you need to get this sorted out and quickly





good luck
Good rule...You shouldnt be complaining.Are you her pi m p?
oh ok whatever,
Your joking, if you aren't i would seriously divorce her. She is messing around where she shouldn't. You must be joking because no man would go and sit in the basement and watch TV quietly unless there is something wrong with you.
Sir, if this is really happening to you...where the hell did you drop your back bone?! Go pick it back up and use it. Get the hell out of this sham of a marriage.
Well, make it clear to her, when you have your call girls over,, that she is free to stay in the basement and watch TV quietly or go out. what is the real reason for posting this BS question anyway?
divorce her if she doesnt want anything to do with you. u deserve better than her. dont just wait around.
Oh God! I hope for your sake this is a made up question! If not then yes she is abusing that! She should at least be the one to find somewhere else to do it, not in your home, and i think you are being a bit of a doormat letting her do it... Sorry to say that!
yeah right......
DIVORCE HER
You need a good lawyer. You also need to collect as much evidence of her adultery this will help you in divorce court. The biggest problem is that you let it continue thereby the courts are going to assume you approve of the situation this is were a good lawyer comes in handy.
Leave.
Hey, whatever floats yer boat. If you hate yourself so much that you feel that you cannot do any better than her, then by all means stay. :)
It even says in the Bible to have sex with your wife!! Hun, she is actively cheating on you, you have every right to kick her out of the house! Not only is she abusing you, but your kids if there are any, and treating you with a speck of respect. Be a man! Not only could she catch something, and then give it to you, she is just going so far beyond the line when making you disappear when she is sleeping with others. Hun, I dont know why you are even defending her! Just pray that you see the right way to go! x
Well if your telling the truth, you must be mad.
Divorce that B. She's cheating on you!
Tell her: I DON'T HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU. I AM A GROWN MAN. I HAVE THE RIGHT TO MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO CONTROL ME OR GIVE ME RULES ON WHAT I SHOULD DO OR WHERE I HAVE TO GO TO.