How can i deal with my wife?

My wife, Elizabeth, and I had been fighting a lot recently. She got very annoyed a few weeks ago, and took our twin girls, Sophia and Kaitlyn, and left. I know she went to stay in one of her friend from works apartments, but I'm not sure which friend. She wouldn't answer her phone or emails. So 1 1/2 weeks after she left, I got very annoyed and decided I needed to talk to her.


She teaches 10th grade at a high school, so I knew i could find her there, and since she can't leave the kids unsupervised, she would have to stay.. So I went into her class at the end of the day, and tried to work things out. Now she's even more annoyed, and said I had no right to bring our personal matters to her work. I gave her a kiss, and she slapped me. She called her friend in the room next door, asked her to watch the class, and went to the teachers lounge where I couldnt get in. She also said if I would like to see Kaitlyn and Sophia, she and her friend, Jennifer, will meet me at a park or something for an hour, but I don't think its fair that her friend is coming. I need to see Elizabeth alone, but she won't accept. How can i deal with my wife? And did she have a right to get mad that i came in during her class?


------ She will let me see the kids, but only at a public place, with her and Jennifer (or another friend) there. She said she wont be with me alone, and I wont be with the kids alone. She told me on Christmas, she will let me see the kids for half of the day alone, but the other half she gets them. She doesn't trust me alone with them. That was all she said, then she got in her car and left. (This was in the school parking lot, a waited by her car after she left the class)





Elizabeth is 25, I'm 26, and our girls are 18 months





Oh, and she still never told me where they were. I figured it out when Jennifer came in her classroom looking for her after school. She is even more mad then she was earlier, after i came into her classroom.








Inside the classroom, she kept it nice and cool besides slapping me when I kissed her. Then she called the teacher next door, asked her to watch her class for the rest of the day (20 min left) and my wife went to the teachers lounge, where i could not get in. I waited for her by her car, and she spazzed out saying I had no right to bring ';personal matters'; to her work, exp. in front of a room full of teensHow can i deal with my wife?
Get a lawyerHow can i deal with my wife?
get a lawyer ASAP
well you are married and by law she has to tell you where your kids are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and yes you were wrong by going to her class!! I would take it up with the courts!!
Just give her some time.
Your psycho dude! I dont even know what else to say
You no have women? find one.
wow, man ... this relationship is totally dysfunctional. The only way to fix it would be to learn how to pray to God and get a break-through (this works, by the way ... if you know who Jesus is)





you are at an impasse. What the heck are you doing to her that brought her to this place [with you] ????? Something did. Do you sit around and just play World of Warcraft all day or something? Do you only take one shower a week weather you need to or not????? Geeeeez ... WHAT are you doing to drive her away from you?????? figure it out, man.





You have to figure out WHAT it is that is setting her off ..... and change it pronto.





give her space right now .... I say again ... give her space right now .... and figure this out ....
First: she is right one thing you don't do is go to her job or anyone elses job! You are messing with the way she feed YOUR kids! I would have been super pissed also. I told my husband if he ever did that again I will call the police and get a restraining order on him!





Second: I don't know what you did but what ever it was it was the straw that broke the camels back and your not in the position right not to do anything but wait till she calms down.





She will calm but when she is ready! Just sit down some where and wait it out you know what you did and it sounds like it was pretty bad!
I don't know how you picked this person, or if you have done things you aren't saying here, but you need to seek legal advice. You do have legal rights with your children - it's not up to her to set them, but a court of law. You might also ask her if she's willing to go to marital counseling. Without legal intervention and counseling, I don't see how it's possible to work this out.
Dude, this is the 5th time you have posted this.





What, the other 100 answers weren't good enough for you?





Gee whiz. No wonder she doesn't want anything more to do with you. I feel like slapping you myself.





EDIT: You can give me thumbs down all you want. Go back and re-read all the advice people have already given you from your other 4 posts about this.
You really shouldn't have tried to make a scene in front of her students. It sounds like she handled it very well. You have to accept she doesn't want you anymore. You can take her to court for visitation of the kids but you can't make her want to spend time with you.
Yea I would get a lawyer. You can't make her talk to you or make her be alone with you. I know that's frustrating but in the court of law if you do anything to go aainst that right then the judge looks poorly on you. I would concentrate on your children.





I would gat a lawyer to ensure you get your time with them alone. So that way she's not just calling all the shots.





Cause she is not dealing with you personally, Legally you can get your rights sought throuh. Don't go to her classroom again. I know you want to work tihngs out, let her cool down. Going to her class room again could open a whole new can of worms like ';stalking'; and ';harassment'; even if you feel you are not.