How to deal with his ex wife,who is interfering and trying to control him?

like do you think its ok to date a man who was married before? it always comes with some drama,i am dating a man who is divorced he also has kids from the marriage,now i know spouse will always have love for each other afterall they promised so when they married.


but the problem is his ex obviously dosent want to see him with anyone new,she hates me and told her kids not to talk to me if im around,now she will be part of his life always,so how do i handle this?we live in a small place so its hard,for instance we went out to dinner the other night she was there with her sisters and they were throwing looks at me and when i went to get a drink one of them pushed me at the bar,and she came over flirting with him at the table,im so upset i really like him how would you handle this?How to deal with his ex wife,who is interfering and trying to control him?
Stay out of it. You will only complicate things more if you get involved. Let those deal with their issues and let him deal with her if she is causing problems. Because after all she is the mother of his children and you dont want to complicate things with him and his kids by getting in to it with the Ex. So stay out of it.How to deal with his ex wife,who is interfering and trying to control him?
First off, if anyone were to push me I would be contacting the fuzz and pressing charges.





It's up to your boyfriend to lay down the boundaries with the ex regarding how they communicate.





When his ex starts dating again, she'll leave you alone.


It seems she's jealous because he's moved on with his life and she's still marinating in the anger and hatred.
You can coach him on how to act around her so she cannot control him but you cannot control her in any way shape or form. She is who she is and as far as she is concerned - you are stomping all over her territory. My s/o's ex is a wack job. She used to call 20 times a day and text even more than that. And she had a live in bf. She was trying to play both of them (manipulation to get her way was constant). She hates my guts and she tells the kids the same thing (you don't have to listen to her, etc) . Dad does not allow that to happen (them to be unkind or rude to me)and when they get to know you - no matter what she says - they will know deep down you are a good person.





You have to really want the relationship. My s/o he's worth it and it has gotten better once she figured out she couldn't control him any longer. . . she still tries but at least it's not an hourly event. . .
It's normal behavior when spouses start dating again...deal with it. If you are a good person and you can rise above it - her attitude may pass...





Then again, she could remain a crazy be-atch forever...





Take some time to see how it all plays out but be prepared to move on if she is a crazy head.