Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to deal with wife moving out and figure out if can be saved?

My wife and I have been having relationship issues, a big one is we seem to have differences in what we physically want from eachother, she recently moved out saying she needs to be away from me to clear her head and deciede if we can over come or differences or not. The biggest issue is that sexually I am more adventurous then her and want it more often. She feels pressured to have sex with me, and that makes her unhappy. I like oral sex alot...recieve and give. She is not a fan of it. This is our biggest issue. Is it fair to want this from my wife or am I asking too much. Should we end our marriage over this. She wants to have a month in a half where we do not talk or associate to clear our heads. She wants me to think on if I can be happy with her, will she be able to give me what I want.How to deal with wife moving out and figure out if can be saved?
There is nothing wrong with any type of sex as long as the two parties consent. Seems she doesn't want to consent. Some women like to receive oral sex but don't like to give it. I think you have lost her but sitting down and talking things out certainly won't hurt the situation..How to deal with wife moving out and figure out if can be saved?
i think that is a petty reason to end a marriage. you both should compromise. meet in the middle. notice i said both. that means her too.
talk to her about it...see if u guys can come up with a compromise or something...cause someone wanting it all the time and the other not wanting it as much can be a big deal.so i say talk to her about it and see if you guys can work something out.good luck and hope it all works out
Talk to a marriage counselor together. I think divorcing over sexual issues is not necessary. You can work this out by finding a compromise.
Well, you like sex and she has boundaries. The oral and too much sex thing. Is that a good reason for a divorce?HELL NO!! What you are doing and wanting is what humans do and mainly men. I am sure you love her and you want to pursue different types of sexual desires with her. At least you wan to to with her and not another. Let her move out and see what she thinks up. Be Patient and understanding. Woman are sometimes just like that and they like to think about everything and try to put them in perspective. About moving out, Don't think she needs to do that but if that is what she needs to think and be away from your sex crazed mind, then allow her to. She'll be back watch!! Then talk about it and maybe she'll let you do all the wonderful things you have been wanting to do with her. Sex is dirty but do it with someone you love!!!!In the meantime, let the ';pressure';build up and get ready for the race.
Actually before she moves out....I would suggest counselling....and maybe sex counseling. This would help you both figure out where she is comfortable and where you are comfortable and if the two of you can compromise. The month and half will just make the two of you think about if you can live with the other person's desires or not....and there is no real discussion on compromise.





But yes if the two of you are not compatible sexually, then it makes marraige very difficult.

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