Guys: How do you deal with your wife's mood swings?

Just curious. My wife gets horrible mood swings every month. I've told her in the past, I wont tolerate her grumpiness, especially with the kids. Honestly, I just dont want to be around her when she's this grumpy. Its like walking on eggshells for 1 week every month.





I've lived with other women before, and their mood swings were nowhere near this.Guys: How do you deal with your wife's mood swings?
Say if she doesn't grow up you're leaving her. Don't spend the rest of your life miserable because of a woman.Guys: How do you deal with your wife's mood swings?
In response to nenn......





';It's called hormones, live with it. Some women's hormones are crazier than others, it's a biological thing....she can't help it.';





It's called DIVORCE if it happens often enough and WE can help it by leaving you.

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It's called hormones, live with it. Some women's hormones are crazier than others, it's a biological thing....she can't help it.
honestly, yes some women are different. just say sweetheart, i understand that youre moody, but can you just be a little nicer to me?
The rule of the thumb is those things which u are afraid of will haunt u first and that too without any doubts...Therefore if ur wife has those kind of mood swings just try to ignore them..Tell ur mind not to process it. When u are at home with a kid start counting say multiplication tables which u dont remember or think abt something else.





Women sometimes dont wanna u to react on everything they say...They just talk as fillers.Listen from one year and take it out of the other ear....( Don't do this all the times otherwise u would be in deep trouble)





Only 4 yrs of marraige have taught me lots of pateince...That can also help u a bit...





Hope this will help...
This is called PMS, many women suffer from it, some without even knowing... the pre menstrual syndrom can be treated, and if your wife has such a bad time each month, you should talk with her (best AFTER she had her period;-) and visit a gynecologist with her to find the right solution.


I suffer from it too, some months more than others. It's horrible be driven like that, it's like being out of control (crazy hormons stirring me...) and I have to control myself so bad not to explode on my kids every 5 minutes and keep myself from nagging on my sweet hubby, but still end up screaming in many occasions.


I have started homeoparic treatment (agnus casti) and it takes a while befor having effect...


Hope you will be able to understand the biological cause behind her behavior. Tell her about it, ask her to try controlling herself and see a gyn with her.


Best wishes!
Son, its time to start drinking heavily.


Then you will be able to justify being nagged at for a week every month.





Besides, you aren't getting any so you need something to ease the pain.





What ever you do don't get caught with porn. In this crowd that is divorce material.
I sincerely hope that you will lovingly encourage your wife to get some medication from her doctor to help control what she's going through... it certainly can't be any fun for her either to suffer like this! And of course it affects the children. You should go to the doctor with her and talk about your part in helping her through these hard times. Do not walk away and ignore this situation..it could be dangerous to do so. Good luck.
find ways that you can help her out some. take the kids out for a day. or make her a nice warm bath and cook dinner and put the kids to bed and just help her out
the worst thing that you could do is give attitude back - that only makes it worse. try to make things easier on her at those times if you haven't already. and maybe some pms medicine will help. midol or something. men don't understand how periods make women feel and how uncomfortable that they can be. but she needs to understand that it is causing you and the kids heartache. does she have a sister? if so talk to her and she can say something so it's not coming from you. hang in there
Whenever I freak out and yell and scream my husband gets this sweet smile and walks over and kisses and hugs me. I don't know where the hell he thought of this idea but it damn well works! hahah He makes me laugh each time he does it!!! Which is odd for me, because I get angry so fast. lol
You have to try to figure out what is best for her. Maybe you better just ';yes dear'; her to death for this period of time. As far a your living with other women before---you better not even bring that up during those short periods of frustration with your wife. Oh--if you do perhaps you should be ready for the outcome---get in touch with me I know the best Divorce lawyer in the land. What monies your EX-WIFE doesn't get out of you HE WILL---good luck
You have to find a way to spend time away from her. Go to the gym, take up drinking, anything.
It is best to ignore it and get out of their way.