Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you deal with wives that are controlling and never wrong?

They really try to run your life with no room for you in YOUR life???How do you deal with wives that are controlling and never wrong?
Love them and tell them there always right of course :)How do you deal with wives that are controlling and never wrong?
rethink the reasons WHY you married that person. Then ask yourself if there is ANY reason at all that is still worth staying in that relationship. If there is - then talk about it, be honest, try to work it out. If not - leave
hmm, i totally agree everybody needs their space...and if you have controlling and perfect wife then you are gone.





I would suggest you not to complain about them....she is like that so let her remain like that...dont try to change her because she is never gonna change...only one thing which is in your hand would be changing yourself ....i dont mean that you have to sacrifice your hobbies...i would advice you to ignore certain things what she says...be normal and calm....it should work...cherio!!!
I'm sure she was once a controlling and never wrong girlfriend. Guess what you did with her then- you married her. You made your bed now sleep in it.
Do what you want anyway. That pisses them off then ignore when they try to ';teach you'; better
i personnally found that if you make some ground rules in your marriage you will be okay, divorce is not the answer but you also have to stand up for yourself
Get rid of them. Or you could get a back-bone and stand up for yourself.
They only have control if you don't stand up to them --- lessons I learned from being married to a man that tried to control me --- I stood up for myself(when he tried putting me down - I learned to say, that's your opinion I don't accept it ) --- eventually he left and found another woman who wouldn't stand up for herself...
wives ? did i hear you right? it's difficult to control one not to talk of more, you are asking for impossibility, in case you don't know women rules the world. accept it and have less problem
Maybe you could try talking to HER about it. She might not know she is that way. If so, and it was gradual, you should've maybe brought it up before it got worse. If it's always been that way, she may have learned to be that way from her upbringing so talking to her will probably help. Maybe come up with ways you can remind her when she's being too controlling so she will back off a littlte. Just be patient, it won't get fixed over night. Good luck!
Been there done that. It is called DIVORCE!
Oh my! This is not a good situation. There needs to be compromise in every situation. You should not give in on everything because soon you will lose your own identity. Talk to her and tell her she needs to compromise if the relationship is going to work out.
get counseling...it more than likely has something to do with the way her mother was with her.
i dont know, sorry
throw them the hell out of the house!!!!
What is with you and the wife questions? If you are messing around with a married man shame on you. You should have more respect for yourself. Find someone that is single and let it go girl. Men very rarely leave their wife for a different piece of ***. You need to keep in mind that they have grown with each other, possibly have children, and a life outside of your bedroom affair. Grow up. Wake up.
if they are nver wrong, no problem
Always remember 2 things be kind to your spouse in a way that you can never be accused of';not caring';and most importantly never ask can you do something.Tell her what you are going to do.(be resonable) In the long run she will respect you for it.
Quit fuc*ing up! That is the easiest way. They all know more than us and they rule the nest. Deal with it and be happy that she likes you enough she would marry you.

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