How would you deal with your wife constantly accussing you of staring at other women?

..and then not talking to you hours after words as punishment?How would you deal with your wife constantly accussing you of staring at other women?
If she's constantly complaining about it it's likely you are staring a lot. Maybe make more of an effort or be more subtle about it.





When i'm in a relationship i will look if i see a hot guy and i will often point out a hot chick to my bf. It all depends on how its done, Staring and leering is disrespectful.How would you deal with your wife constantly accussing you of staring at other women?
You know I used to have a huge problem with this with my ex.


I don't know there is something about your partner staring at another right infront of them.....It is a Woman thing, Maybe she feels insecure about herself and compares herself to other Women.


I really don't know why a person would stare so much as look ,but okay.


I personally now do not have a problem with it. Heck I look to it is a natural thing for people. Like art if you like the way it looks then you stop and look at it. :)


Make sure she knows she is yours and yours only. You love her and no matter who is out there she is the one you want to be with.
I am a wife. But, if I was a guy and I constantly got accused of staring at other women, when I know full well that I wasn't, her not talking to me wouldn't at all bother me. I honestly wouldn't pay it any mind. I would probably even go so far as to call out her immaturity over it. Getting mad and discussing it. That's what adults do. Getting mad and not speaking WHEN THE OTHER IS TRYING TO INITIATE CONVERSATION TO DISCUSS is immature.





I'd tell her to grow up. If she didn't want to, I'd enjoy the peace and quiet.
Oh boy, this is an age old question. I have been in this position myself. I did this because I felt inadequate, I felt ugly, not nearly attractive enough and had very low self esteem. Your wife is probably feeling some of these things and when you see many beautiful women daily portrayed in the media and them telling you that you need to look like they do to be truly attractive to your man, it makes everything even worse again.





It comes back to self esteem and you could help by saying she is beautiful, she is the most beautiful woman in the world to you. You could show her some extra attention by reaching out to touch her as she walks by you, hold her hand as you walk down the street or are in the car or on the lounge together. Kiss her and tell you love her. Buy her flowers, perfume, chocolates....ask her out to dinner, plan a romantic day alone at home or away for the weekend. Leave her a note telling her you love her. This all helped me. Tell her you are not interested in anyone but her, tell you love her and only her.





It may get frustrating for you at times. You may feel like you are getting no-where but believe me...every touch, every kiss, every I love is heard and eventually she will start believing in herself again and your marriage.
that means u r staring at other women, so stop doing that and pay attention to ur partner instead of looking around and staring at other women specially if u r with ur wife. wives like to always in their husband's mind and they like to show that to other women, and they show that if their husbands r not staring to other women, cause if u do so, means that she is not fulfilling u or can't turn u on. it is just how women think so please respect that and stop staring u wont loose anything.
well either stop staring at women or tell her that u just admire beauty but its only her that turn you on...tell her that ur love wouldn't change for no beauty in any other girl...when there is a beautiful girl, its very normal...even us girls look at beautiful girls with desire to be like them u see...its not bad as long as u don't look at their intimidating parts in from of ur wife or alone. if after this she still reacts like this...tell her that this reaction is a sign of less respect, faith and less trsut between ur relationship which is the core of any relation.





Now for u i would say if ur wife is like this..avoid looking at other women in order to save ur relationship if u love her if nt there is no point.
Ask her what she's so insecure about. Number one, if you are staring at other women, that's rude. You wouldn't like it if she was doing it.





This is an age old problem of the big green monster coming out %26amp; is just plain childish. Childish on her part for being jealous %26amp; childish on your part for doing it.





I'm not saying that looking is wrong... but you married her. Just remember that. It certainly doesn't make anyone attractive to be gawking at others while you're married. How would you feel if she did it to you?





I'd pray about it %26amp; look from your gut of how to handle it.
Tell her to quit acting so immature and insecure, and ask her if she wants you to send her to therapy, so that you and she can begin to enjoy your lives together. Tell her that everyone looks until the day they die. Tell her that it is normal, and if she thinks about it, she probably looks too. Tell her that if she continues to act this way, you will not be able to take it. Tell her how much you love her and that you do not want to hear any more about it, or she will have to go to therapy in order for you to stay with her.





Here is a site on overcoming jealousy. Perhaps it will help her.





http://www.ehow.com/how_2036419_overcome鈥?/a>
I had a problem like that once. It's kinda in the lines of..WTF are you staring at..so long... I am right here in front of you...So disrespectful..I am your girl, and yet you keep looking at this other chick, like I am not even here...Plus it has a way of making her feel like nothing to you, If that other girl sees you looking at her, She will think you don't care about your girlfriend, and you coming off as available to her.





I never want some other chick to feel she makes my man stand on wood..better than me..I have seen men stare before..and if your the kind to look while your girl is looking right in your eyes.. i would say you deserve everything you get.. soon enough you'll be alone my friend...to stare at all the chicks you want...
Wow... that's totally immature of her. As human beings, we all can appreciate good looking women or men. But it is how you check them out that is important. If you are giving other women sleazy stares and checking them out up and down....then that's not cool. But if you just notice them, then what's the big deal?? Like... you're wife doesn't notice good looking men??
Tell her - ';Grow up hun';





Seriously - its very normal wen men look at other women - its very natural and normal - ur wife seems to be too insecure - anyhow - just blind fold ur self wen u go out the next time - and make sure she is extremely embarrassed; this way she will realise and not trouble u ..
She is passive aggressive, a child, a control freak, and probably paranoid delusional. Get divorced to avoid further expansion of her insanity. She needs professional help and meds.
I would start working on building my wife's self esteem...by building her up. I then would quit looking at other women when she was with me....seriously dude.....are you just looking to cause problems or what? A happy wife = happy life.....
You are just looking, not touching, hitting on, etc. You are not dead, you are a human being. There is nothing wrong with looking at women just like there is nothing wrong with her looking at other guys.
Well are you looking at other women in a obvious and disrespectful way? If so then try and watch it or you might end up alone.
tell her there is nothing to see in other women when the most beautiful lady means (your wife with u)





and yes that is punishment
You could try not staring at other women. Usually that works.
I'd buy her a box of candy,it's amazing what a box of chocolate can do.
Try to get her to go to therapy. She obviously has self esteem issues.
if your doing the time you might as well do the crime stare hard and turn your head around show her what staring really is.
there is nothing wrong with looking at the menu. just don't order from it.is there any reason that she is insecure?
stop staring at other women
quit staring at other women
Are you looking at other women?
So what if you are? There's nothing wrong with looking!
Tell her you're married not blind...ya know...just like she is.
because maybe you are