What are techniques on how to deal with your wife hating you?

You naughty boy what have you done to the poor lady that she hates you so much,lol.What are techniques on how to deal with your wife hating you?
';As to those women on whose part you fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, (1) Admonish them, (2) refuse to share their beds, (3) beat them; but if they return to obedience seek not against them means of annoyance: For Allah is Most High, Great. (4) If you fear a break between them, appoint two arbiters, one from his family and the other from hers; If they wish for peace, Allah will cause their reconciliation'; (Quran 4:34-35).





The first three are to be tried first. If they fail, then the help of the families concerned should be sought. It has to be noted, in the light of the above verses, that beating the rebellious wife is a temporary measure that is resorted to as third in line in cases of extreme necessity in hopes that it might remedy the wrongdoing of the wife. If it does, the husband is not allowed by any means to continue any annoyance to the wife as explicitly mentioned in the verse. If it does not, the husband is still not allowed to use this measure any longer and the final avenue of the family-assisted reconciliation has to be explored.





Prophet Muhammad has instructed Muslim husbands that they should not have recourse to these measures except in extreme cases such as open lewdness committed by the wife. Even in these cases the punishment should be slight and if the wife desists, the husband is not permitted to irritate her:





';In case they are guilty of open lewdness you may leave them alone in their beds and inflict slight punishment. If they are obedient to you, do not seek against them any means of annoyance'; (Tirmidthi)What are techniques on how to deal with your wife hating you?
As-Salaamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh.





In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.


All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger





you probably made her hate you





Peace
Tell her you're going to consider on getting a second wife
you cant make someone hate you for no reason, you obviously did something to anger her, so the problem resides in you, not her.
Hmm.. I can't tell if this a serious question or not. I would look into counseling and even talking to a sheikh for help.





Jazak Allah.
Buy her jewlerry/flowers? Take her out? Make her feel loved and tell her you dont want your relationship with her to end.
get a divorce. there shouldn't be long lasting hate in a relationship.
Well what did you do?





She cant hate you for no reason.
remind her how Islam tells us to deal with your spouse.
Booooom her
Get a divorce