How do you deal with unfaithful wife while being separated? It hurts so bad, then hate. How to cope?

I am so very sorry to hear the pain you are going through right now. I would suggest trying to stay busy. Go to the movies, get involved playing cards with friends, go for a very long drive, take a mini vacation to get away....try to take your mind off of the pain by staying busy. There is no easy answer for this and I am sorryHow do you deal with unfaithful wife while being separated? It hurts so bad, then hate. How to cope?
If you're separated...although you're ';married'; on paper, I don't consider her being ';unfaithful.'; You can talk to her and try to worth things out by discussing the matter, or you can move on, depending on how important it is to you and how hurt you are. Sometimes the best thing is to simply move on.How do you deal with unfaithful wife while being separated? It hurts so bad, then hate. How to cope?
It's your problem not hers... you're separated. I met my new wife while I was separated from my first wife. Some states require years of separation before divorce. You really expect her to wait because of a formality on a sheet of paper. Move on dude! You two are no longer exclusive-



first of all if u are separating from her, and she is adamant about continuing to cheat, then why waste ur love on someone who obviously will not return the same to u, get out, get a divorce, and find someone that u can actually have a real relationship with, and will return the same affections in return!
Let yourself feel this pain and look inside yourself. Realize who you are and what your true woth is. If this relationship is giogn to be healed make a list of all the things you love about her and write her a letter on how she can mend the mistakes she has made.
if you're seperated then it's not really cheating she's just realized that it's over..for you it's best to move on also..there's no point hanging on to a relationship when the other person has cleary lettin it go already.. be strong what doesn't kill you makes you stronger
You cope by first accepting the reality of your situation.





Next, you get out of your own suffering by helping someone less fortunate than you.





Pain is part of life. We all go through pain. But suffering is a CHOICE!
Let yourself go through the grieving process...its totally healthy. Time, my friend, cures the pain. Try to keep yourself busy, dont think too much and find activities that will take your mind off the woes.
Accept that it is over. Let yourself be sad but when the saddness ends, move on.





My husband of 14 years recently cheated on me. Email me if you would like to chat.
Get a divorce, start over with somone new.
Be seen by her with some supermodel,,,
Stick her with her own bills.


I'm sure the guy she is banging doesn't want to pay her debts.